Can you teach your heart to love someone else?
Ξ June 28th, 2007 | → 9 Comments | ∇ Love, Random Thoughts |
Now I’m starting to be emo. I can’t help it, I can’t think of any good topics lately. I wanted to write but I don’t know what to write about. I don’t even have any ideas how to make this blog interesting. Anyway, I thought writing something about love (once again) can make up for the wasted time I spent today.
It just amazes me how some people can go blind when they are in love. They can’t see that the one they love may not be the one for them. I mean, put yourself in a situation that you are in love with a married man. Whatever the circumstances and whichever side you look at it, you lose. Whether you love him and he loves somebody else or he loves you and you love him in return, you will lose. You won’t be together because he is already committed. On the other hand, there is this someone who is so in love with you. Willing to go through fire just to have you. He can be the right guy, the man of your dreams and yet, you don’t love him.
If you were going to choose, whom will you prefer? The one you love or the one who loves you? Ofcourse, the one who can make you happy, right? This is the hard part. Some people blinded by love will still choose the one that they can’t have (like my example above) because they think that it is the source of their happiness; who can also be the source of their misery. They will not choose the one who is available simply because they don’t love them.
Can you teach your heart to love someone else? Because if lovers can, maybe they will have no trouble choosing the one they would love, the one who can make them whole again. Or maybe, they’re just too blinded that they can’t see who they really want for life. Or maybe, they just have to be patient and wait for their heart to beat for someone who really loves them.
Or maybe, I can think about a good topic next time and post a good read…
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